Don’t marry a woman with this sign.

I completely agree when the society and the family lived under a family system that accepted the biological differences between the father and mother, and I agree when the family lived under a religious framework that preserved its strength and cohesion, so the father was the caretaker and responsible, and the mother was the obedient educator!

Question: In an era when divorce rates have risen, laws and governments have taken away the traditional role of the father and given it to mothers, and men and women have applied what feminists and the media dictate to them and reversed social roles, making the man the submissive, the beta, the woman and the state the ones who control the family and its decisions, can we apply the old criteria in choosing wives and ignore the modern changes that have occurred in the family and affected women?

It is noticeable that Arab males still rely on old criteria in choosing a wife (such as beauty, whiteness), religion and lineage, and ignore the modern changes that have occurred in the lives of women and families. and ignoring the modern changes that have occurred in the life of women and the family and what has left a great psychological impact on the life of the woman and the impact of the psychological impact on him and his children and how to underestimate the psychological aspect and criminals, addicts, murderers, murderers, thieves and prostitutes all were exposed to unhealthy environmental factors that contributed greatly to their deviation and this emphasizes the need to pay attention to the psychological state of the wife before the commitment and the psychological state starts from the environment and upbringing, so neglecting the woman’s environment and upbringing is one of the biggest mistakes modern men fall into and the greatest crimes that men commit against themselves first and then their children and One of the greatest crimes that men commit against themselves first and then their children, and its negligence leads to the loss of money through divorce and the corruption of children by unbalanced upbringing from a psychopathic mother, from here I decided to rebel against the prevailing culture and review the most dangerous file that modern psychologists hide which shows the most important signs that a man can distinguish an unmarriageable woman, which relationship experts in the Redpill called Red Flags, which indicate that a woman is unfit for marriage because of her danger to men, society, and even future generations.

Red flags 1- Daddy Issues Daddy Issues The absence or exclusion of the father from his role in the family through divorce or the control of the mother pushes the girl to hate and disrespect her father, and this in turn causes complex issues between the girl and her father, so do not expect a girl who does not have a strong relationship with a virtuous male father to appreciate and respect a husband. Girls who lost their fathers through divorce, mother control, or even the death of her father suffer from a mental illness called (borderline personality disorder) and the disease is considered common Among orphans who lost their fathers in childhood, where they develop a fear of abandonment and the fear of abandonment continues into adulthood. The sufferers assume that abandonment is inevitable just as their fathers abandoned them and behave with men based on this assumption Borderline personality disorder sufferers are considered very dangerous because they show society and men idealism and sophistication while hiding obscenity and immorality

Women with borderline personality disorder deceive men and create a false sense of being a good mother and show fake care and concern for men to convince them that she is a good mother. Red Pill experts around the world agree that a girl who has daddy issues (divorce, death, absence, absence) is not worth her time, resources, and effort because a girl’s father is the primary role model she grows up believing in and governs her beliefs and actions when dealing with her husband and family. Daddy issues are not worth your time, resources, or effort because a girl’s father is the main role model that she grows up with, believes in, and governs her beliefs and actions that she will deal with her husband and her family. A girl who disdains her father will disdain men, and a girl who has lost the fatherly model that teaches her the nature of the relationship between men and women cannot know how to deal with you.

She sees men as oppressors and women as victims, and in a dynamic way, she raises her daughters and sons on victim behavior and historical injustice to women, thus corrupting society and giving birth to society males with a feminist mentality, and feminists with borderline personality disorder who reject the patriarchal system in society Is the religious woman who has lost the patriarchal model exempt from borderline personality disorder? Before elaborating on the matter of the religious girl who has lost the parental model, we must differentiate between psychology and sharia science. We use psychology in childhood to qualify children to accept sharia after puberty. Teaching boys and girls common sense and social roles in childhood is psychological preparation, and their acceptance or rejection of it is based on their previous psychological preparation in childhood.

If we establish males psychologically on the right instincts and teach them about strength, courage, jealousy for incest and the meaning of preserving honor, and teach young girls their maternal role in the family and instill in them obedience to the man and chastity from adultery and emphasize to them that the man is the strongest and best suited to lead, then in a pragmatic way the girl accepts her role in marriage and family because it corresponds to her psychological preparation in the childhood stage and what she saw from the traditional parental model. She will not face a psychological conflict between what she reads in Islam and the lost, incomplete or submissive father model in her life, and this is exactly what happens to the religious woman who lost the father model in her life, whether due to the death of her father or the divorce of her mother or even the submission of the committed father to the mother, so the religious woman faces a psychological conflict between her loss of the father model of the virtuous Muslim man in her life and what she reads from the texts urging obedience. submissiveness and traditional role-playing So the religious girl turns into a religious girl or an Islamized feminist whose only task is to search in Islam for what suits her psychological state in which she was raised, and she will not care whether the text is weak or true, public or private, what is important is that it fits the model of the absence of the father and the domination of the mother. The orphan, the daughter of a divorcee, and the son of a compliant and submissive man, no matter how religious they may be, are borderline personality disorder patients who are unfit for marriage. They are also considered a red flag because they lack a good male role model in their lives.