Traditional gender roles reversed
The more chores a husband does, the more likely a marriage is to end in divorce ….
A new study from Oslo and Akershus University of Applied Sciences in Norway says that couples who work at home more often end up divorcing…
In other words, the more men and women abandon their traditional roles, the more likely they are to break down and divorce…
The study included 20,000 men and women between the ages of 18-79. Couples were asked about household chores and childcare, how they were divided between them, and how close they were to gender equality in this aspect… They found a link between the increased risk of divorce and men and women abandoning their traditional roles. When men do half or more than half of the household chores and childcare, the marriage often ends in divorce, and when men do half or more than half of the household chores and childcare, the marriage ends in divorce.…
And here I say that the traditional role of men and women since the Stone Age until now has not changed except in light of the rise of the feminist movement in the last 40 years in the democratic countries of the West through the shiny slogan of gender equality, and this call has a beautiful attractive shiny cover and a rotten core… How, you ask?
If there are two prisoners, the first is a very thin man weighing 40 kilograms, and the second is a world bodybuilding champion with 95% muscle mass weighing 120 kilograms… I decided to give each of them half a chicken for lunch as a matter of equality… I gave the skinny guy a lot more than he needed, but I didn’t give the big guy half of what he needed. …
Hence we say that fairness is better than equality, and fairness between men and women must take into account the composition of the population. Their psychobiology, personality traits and orientations… The female is interested in people and socializing, and the male is interested in things and competition… Women are nurturing in nature and are designed/evolved, as you may think, to be a nurturing mother, while men tend to be more competitive, conflictual, and manipulative, and are designed to be a protective father… When we remove either of them from their traditional role that their gender has been doing for hundreds of thousands of years, they will feel uncomfortable in the long run and will eventually become frustrated or hostile, which is not in the best interest of the family and the children.…
*Note: (A group of narrow-minded people will appear who think that I am advocating not helping the wife at all (rather, the man should do the work that requires great muscular effort, such as chopping wood, maintenance work, etc.), and they will mention the hadith that you are better than your family, there is a big difference between helping voluntarily in free time and role reversal).
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