“How to Recognize a Chlamydia Woman”
A woman’s past is a very important issue and getting rid of its effects is very difficult for women, and competing with other women (younger and prettier) becomes more difficult with time, and the biological clock of motherhood starts ringing bells in every woman’s mind as she ages further, so some women resort to using religion utilitarianly and without intrinsic and real conviction to achieve their goals.
Women want a man with a good future: That’s why they ask what you are currently doing to predict where you could be in the future. Can you provide for her needs and protect her in the future? Because the value of a man depends on how bright his future is in the first place.
While men want a woman with a good past: That’s why they prefer a younger woman with an honorable past and good manners, because past values influence his desires (good upbringing, fertility, negative emotional memory of women). So a woman’s value depends more on her past, while a man’s depends on his future.
If a woman has a history of rewarding evil and relationships, she won’t easily appreciate good deeds. She will accept your sacrifice but may not appreciate it. And in the end, sooner or later, she will punish you for making it.
That’s how it is. The sins of “strength” will be rewarded and the virtues of “weakness” will be punished. That’s why men try to avoid any woman like that!
She can be with you and will accept your good intentions to make her a better person, but in reality she will always thirst for that past. That’s where the man’s risk lies, because he’s digging in the wrong place.
So an Eastern man looks at a woman’s past and then judges her harshly. If she has any indication of bad relationships or a bad past, he will prefer to withdraw.
If you’re going to argue this point, you should first read the full sources in the comments (scientific sources on the importance of women’s past vs. men’s past).
Women are well aware of this, which is why some of them use religion as a utilitarian tool for a variety of purposes:
1- Washing away the past and appearing cleaner.
2- Misleading some men and directing society to what their interests require using religion.
3- Competing with younger and prettier women.
4- Fit with the environment.
But how do you recognize a clothed woman?
I) A stutterer is a woman who knows that being religious means less accountability for her past or morals, and gives her the advantage of using religion to mislead you and mess with your perceptions.
This card is used by some women, especially at an advanced age, to wash away their sins and to appear cleaner and succeed in competing with younger and prettier women.
To recognize and avoid chlamydia, you have several signs:
1) Dress: First of all, ask yourself why does a businessman wear formal wear? Why does a rapper wear chains?
Simply because clothing is an outward expression of the inner qualities we want to present. If so, then women who wear half-hijabs or modern hijabs (colored, tight-fitting, etc.) have something to advertise, but what is it?
Hijab is the dress of a Muslim woman; for the purpose of concealing and hiding her body, hair, and appendages from appearing to men who are forbidden to her, she must cover and hide all her nakedness by wearing loose, opaque, and unobtrusive clothes that show her appendages, and she is required to cover and conceal all her nakedness by wearing loose, opaque, and unobtrusive clothes that show her appendages.
Any deviation from these conditions does not fulfill the purpose for which it was intended.
Why do some women wear a half-hijab, which may show her charms or part of her hair and body, or a colorful and eye-catching headscarf?
Although she knows full well that she did not fulfill the purpose for which the hijab was imposed and did not fulfill the duty imposed on her by her Lord, what is she trying to advertise here?
Simply put, she is trying to use the hijab, which is essentially a “religious obligation,” to fit in with more than one environment.
She appears in front of the religious as a traditional woman who can be reformed and in front of the parallel society as a woman who is keeping up with the times or, at best, was forced to do so, so she deals with the matter as opportunities and possibilities, no less and no more, and the veil does not represent any fundamental conviction for her.
Does it make sense for someone to buy a house and then go sleep on the street? If buying a house doesn’t fulfill the purpose for which it was bought, what’s the point of buying it?
Similarly, if the hijab does not fulfill the purpose for which it was created, the woman who wears it must be revealing something else entirely…and this is an important sign of tadhkar.
Ask yourself:
Why do many women tend to wear the hijab without conviction or out of fashion, while showing all or part of her charms and her dress does not fulfill the purpose (religious and worldly) for which the hijab was originally imposed?
If the main purpose of the hijab is not achieved by this type of dress, why wear it?
Simply put, it gives the impression of being somewhat conservative or traditional, as well as signaling to you that they are willing to negotiate certain religious principles up or down depending on their interests.
Therefore, you have to put a big red marker with a total rejection of any woman who does not wear the legitimate hijab as commanded by Allah and His Messenger, but I will tell you something very important, which is that even a woman who is revealing and exposed does not use religion like this woman, so she is the worst option available from my point of view.
2) Observe a woman’s actions, not her words.
One of the most important signs that show a woman’s deception is the vast discrepancy between what she says and what she does.
This is because for them, religion is only a way to compete, wash away sins, or mislead, so you are always watching their actions, not just their words.
3) Age: Most of the affected women are between 26 and 32 years old.
I do not claim that every woman of this age is necessarily covered, but I say that women of this age show more signs of covering than any other age, and the reason is as I mentioned to you before (washing away past sins, competing with younger and prettier women, fitting in with any environment and increasing her chances of marriage, the biological clock is ringing in her ears like a church bell). So she tries to appear more traditional and pure, and some of them resort to the use of religion.
Someone might say, “But repentance is accepted by God, don’t you accept it?
1-This conversion is not motivated by a true religious motive but by deception, so she will abandon it and reveal her fangs later when she achieves her goal.
2- A woman’s past affects her even in the future and present due to the impact of negative emotional memory and relationships because women are not designed for multiple emotional or physical relationships (see sources in the comments).
3- You sympathize with anyone who repents to God, and you may support them, but not marry them.
For all this, make sure to check as much as you can about her morals and religion, and always go for the younger girl.
3) Time and cost of identity theft
Chlamydia is a long-term struggle.
And you should know that character is not forged, it is acquired.
By this definition, if a stutterer is faking her character, the truth will eventually come out, because she has to embody the fake character, and she can’t always embody what she doesn’t have, and she can’t always embody what she doesn’t have.
It can fake it in the tactical part, not the strategic.
She’s still the same, but she’s trying to appear as if she’s something else (religious)
This is called wearing a mask.
She can falsify certain actions and opinions and so on – but this comes at a great personal cost to her. That personal cost represents the suppression of her true nature, which is exhausting and unpleasant for her.
She is not in touch with herself, because everything has to be planned, considered, and constrained – she doesn’t have the freedom to “be who she really is.” This is the cost of trying to get what she doesn’t deserve and doesn’t have.
This is why negativity of all kinds will arise (whether she’s scamming you, or trying to play the good woman during the engagement) will favor working on a quick time scale.
Because she can’t keep the trick up forever, cracks will appear in the mask, as the vigilance needed to maintain it weakens it over time.
So, she literally, can’t fake her personality.
She can fake some of her actions, she can be misleading, she can say things you don’t believe. But you as a special man will test her, and unless she betrays herself completely at the core of her identity and repeatedly, she will fail and that’s next to impossible no matter how deceitful she is.
No matter what this woman masquerades as, and no matter how much she wants to deceive you to get something she doesn’t deserve from you, she cannot sell her soul over and over again, this is simply taxing her true nature and identity. She will eventually break and show her true colors.
This is why if you take decisions slowly and test them repeatedly, you don’t have to fear anything, the true self has a way of asserting itself. It will at some point or another do or not do things that don’t correspond to what you wish to portray.
This is your moment of truth.
This is also why you should be inherently skeptical of anyone who tries to rush into anything.
Why rush?
Honest and good people will take the time to build a meaningful relationship. There is no rush. We have time to cultivate something wonderful.
When the chatterbox doesn’t know how long she can continue to deceive you – then she chooses to rush, and given this great strain on herself she will have the option to evade and hurry, but not to endure.
That’s why everything will be revealed in due course.
Slowing down and taking the time to choose, propose and ask is a stressful thing that cannot be tolerated for a woman who hides her truth, as I explained to you that this mask is a burden on her if she is deceiving you, and this is an important weapon for you to use and wait for the truth.
By : Abu Osama
