-I can’t lead the relationship? -My wife is in control of the house?
The secret the modern man doesn’t understand to leading a family!
One of the cardinal rules of relationships: The strongest person is the one who can do without the other, this is called the cardinal rule of relationships.
The Cardinal Rules of Relationship
This rule is not only limited to relationships between spouses, but also between family members, businesses, and is used by some managers in workplaces and is considered one of the most important successful strategies in government departments!
It’s a dynamic that works in all types of relationships! How does it work? I’m a corporate employee. For my personal safety and the well-being of my family, I need my employer more than my employer needs me, So I set my alarm and wake up in the morning to work, and I am a vital part of the employer so that the success continues and the company achieves its endeavors, the employer simply needs my effort less than I need it, I am at the mercy of the employer and I am afraid of reducing my salary or limiting the benefits I receive. If I wanted to get rid of my need for an employer, I decided to complete my master’s degree and become independent so that I don’t spend the rest of my life in need of an employer and thus don’t need to work and get up early.
This example applies to relationships between women and men and is the first point of attraction at the beginning of any marital relationship, regardless of whether you intend to build your relationships on power or not. You are acceptable to your wife because you are willing to meet her high standards, and she is acceptable to you for meeting your need and ambition in the relationship. How do men and women decide their suitability to build a relationship? This is done through unconscious, innate comparisons at the first meeting about everything and through which they decide the suitability of the other party for an eternal or even temporary forbidden relationship. From this point on, negotiations for mutual benefit begin, and the one with the least need is elected to dominate and control the relationship, with the inevitable and undeniable result that dominance and submission are based on the needs of each partner.
Dear men : I don’t mean to encourage men to manipulate women, but rather to give them a better sense of themselves and understand their value in the marital relationship, and to open their eyes that women are not the center of their attention and see themselves as the prize that every woman seeks instead of being manipulated by their wives. There is nothing wrong with retreating in some cases from the disagreement between you and your wife, but the biggest mistake is when you constantly compromise your position for fear of being deprived of intimacy and under the pretext of maintaining the relationship, compromising for the sake of intimacy reduces your value and respect and you become the submissive party in the relationship. Preventing you from intimacy is a delicate psychological test that many men do not know, aimed at determining who needs the other. Only a confident man knows that bargaining over intimacy is one of the highest levels of manipulation, so he instinctively decides to stay away and look for legal alternatives by marriage.
by : logical
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