Myth: Women’s work serves the marriage ecosystem!
On social media, feminists are constantly promoting the idea that women’s work helps the marriage ecosystem thrive and increases the financial and social stability of the family.
If you are one of the people who believe in these myths and think that women’s financial independence exists to support the family, you are missing the point.
The truth is that women seek to work in order to achieve many goals that have nothing to do with family happiness and stability at all, among the most important reasons why women go to work is to weaken your authority over them, evade their duties, seek their perfection and socialize.
But worst of all, she won’t be happy with you if you make a financial leap beyond your income or get a promotion that puts her in a better position than you.
Most studies show the exact opposite of what feminists are talking about. Most studies show that women’s advancement and attainment of professional positions increases their dissatisfaction with their current marriages and divorce.
This study suggests, for example, that women’s advancement to high-level positions has negative and destructive effects on their marital relationships.
This position has high costs for you and the family, especially if the woman holds higher positions or job roles than her husband.
The study shows that there is a relationship between a woman’s career advancement and her perception of her current spouse, as she has negative thoughts and feelings about her partner’s low career status compared to her own, and these comparisons and feelings lead to decreased relationship satisfaction, happiness, and divorce.
The level of well-being and happiness of wives is also significantly reduced when they earn the same or higher wages than their husbands… This decrease in happiness, satisfaction, and divorce has been observed to coincide with the promotion of women even in the most egalitarian countries.
(for example, in Scandinavian countries), it was found that wives who earn more than their husbands are more likely to file for divorce and have a lower level of satisfaction and happiness with their current marriage.
It seems that the issue does not lie in the mentality of the oriental man, but in the mentality of the strong independent woman who will seek to bypass her husband and family in search of a husband with a higher social level or, at best, will bring unhappiness to your home, especially when she advances in her job or gets promoted.
So in the future, don’t forget to refer any feminist who says: “Eastern men are afraid of strong, independent women” to this thread.
By : Abu Osama
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