A while ago, I read a post on a Facebook page and commented that it is true that masculinity is taken from men, just as femininity is taken from females, and that a boy needs a man to teach him masculinity and a girl needs a girl to teach her femininity…
It’s like responding in the dirtiest and filthiest possible ways, false accusations and naive projections; (naive, stupid, hate women, despise women, ignorant, etc.) and after all this, I was banned from commenting even though I did not misbehave and as if my words were rational and based on scientific grounds…
She knew that the addict is on her period and her brain is suffering under the weight of a storm of hormones like December in northern Siberia, the freezing wind gnaws the bones and the progesterone and estrogen strike the balance of the frontal cortex in the brain, which is the part responsible for rational judgment in humans…
I understood that I had made a mistake, but how could I know that the person I was discussing with was menstruating? In any case, it is necessary to alert and correct this concept of the misconceptions that are spread among the people…
We all agree that if a man carries feminine qualities, it is not commendable, unacceptable and a cause for ridicule among men and women, and we must also agree that a female with masculine qualities is a tomboy and a woman who looks like men, and she is first cursed in our religion and is not accepted by the instinct of normal men, because a man does not like a rough, harsh, rebellious woman, and he is ultimately looking for the opposite of his manhood, not a male like him, whether in nature and behavior or in form and appearance….
Can you ask a cook to teach you fencing? Or ask a nurse to teach you boxing? Or a seamstress to teach you archery? Of course not, just as women do not teach masculinity and men do not teach femininity, raising men on men and females on females, and how not? Does a woman possess masculine qualities to teach them to her male children? Even the biology of her body does not support her in this and does not enable her to do it, no matter how strong she pretends to be…
But the basis for this claim is the existing belief that women are the origin and men are an addition even in education, and this is completely wrong, as dozens of studies have indicated that a child raised away from his father suffers from a set of psychological, neurological and behavioral disorders, and even the IQ ratio varies for those who grew up without a male role model in his life… Do I underestimate the value of women? Of course not, the mother has an important role in education, but the balance must be balanced between father and mother, this is how God created it and this is how it should be and this is for the mental and psychological benefit of the child and so that he grows up in a balanced environment and femininity is from the female role model (mother) and masculinity is from the male role model (father)…
The answer is simple, Muhammad was raised in the presence of his grandfather and his uncle, who are the highest examples of manhood and courage, so they replaced the father and replaced him in education, and some Muslim scholars were educated in the katibs by great men and scholars who accompanied them from their youth until they became strong, and the examples are many…
And as we say in colloquial dialects now about the soft, sluggish male, mama’s boy or mama’s boy, and as the old Jordanian proverb says
(A woman who raised an ox and did not plow)…
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